Where Inner Worth Is Reclaimed and Wholeness Is Restored
There was a time when I believed self-love was something you “earned” by being perfect, pleasing others, or never messing up.
But healing has taught me the opposite: your worth was never up for debate — it was God-given from the beginning.
The Falling in Love With You Institute is the sacred home where you return to that truth.
Where your healing is not rushed.
Where your wholeness is nurtured.
Where your confidence grows from the inside out.
This is where you fall in love with the woman God created you to be.



Built on the SACRED Framework™

Every path, course, and coaching experience is anchored in SACRED™, a transformational journey designed to help you reclaim your worth piece by piece:

S – See Yourself Honestly

Through self-awareness, self-honesty, and self-forgiveness, you learn to meet yourself without judgment.
This is where clarity begins and shame breaks.

A – Accept Yourself Fully

Through self-acceptance and self-compassion, you soften into grace.
Your worth doesn’t have to be earned — it already is.

C – Cultivate Confidence

Confidence grows not from performing, but from inner safety.
You build self-esteem by learning to trust yourself again.

R – Reclaim Your Power

With self-empowerment and self-respect, boundaries are restored, desires are voiced, and you stop shrinking to make others comfortable.

E – Express Your Truth

Self-expression becomes a natural overflow.
Your voice, your creativity, and your visibility are reclaimed.

D – Delight in Your Wholeness

Through self-care and self-pleasure, you reframe joy as sacred and restorative.
Rest, pleasure, and joy are not luxuries — they are healing medicine.




Anchored by the 12 Self-Love Books

Your journey is supported by the full 12-book self-love teaching series, each intimately connected to the SACRED™ framework.




Your Path of Transformation

12-Month Self-Love Journey
Walk through the SACRED™ framework and 12 self-love foundations at your own pace.

Three 4-Month Intensive Courses
For the woman who desires focus, depth, accountability, and spiritual renewal.

Six-Month SACRED™ Coaching
Mentorship rooted in mindset mastery, spiritual growth, and embodied wholeness.




A Calling, Not Just a Course

This institute is more than education — it’s restoration.
It’s where you unlearn abandonment and step into belonging.
Where you stop proving and start being.




Your Invitation


Wholeness is not something you chase — it’s something you remember.

God has already named you worthy.
Now it’s time for you to live like it.


Enroll today and step into your SACRED, God-aligned, fully expressed self.

Hi, I’m Melanie Ivey


As the founder of the Falling in Love With You Institute and the internationally celebrated Falling In Love With You Retreat, I bring my life’s work to women who are ready to heal from the inside out. I am a holistic health coach, mindset mentor, breast cancer thriver, and the author of The 12 Self-Love Languages® Volume 1 & 2, as well as the creator of the Self-Love Assessment™. My calling is to guide women into emotional freedom, spiritual alignment, and self-worth that is rooted in God, not performance. I don’t teach theory — I walk beside you as you reclaim your voice, your power, your identity, and your joy. This Institute is more than my assignment — it’s a sanctuary for transformation, and I’m honored to journey with you.